cunnilingusFor women, cunnilingus is the most pleasurable part of sex. Most of them won’t openly tell you about their hidden desires. Nonetheless, you can be sure that all women love cunnilingus. If you want to satisfy your women in bed, cunnilingus is the best tool you can use for this purpose. Men around the globe, treat cunnilingus differently. Some men enjoy doing it. Others think that it humiliates them in front of their women. I belong to the first team of men who enjoy doing cunnilingus. I love it because I enjoy the process itself. Secondly, I am very proud of making my woman satisfied.

In my previous blog post, I gave you some tips for making a truly breathtaking cunnilingus. I think that I have successfully reached my objective. I got a very deep, profound, and detailed article on how to make an ideal cunnilingus for a woman. Today, I will talk about the common mistakes made by men during making cunnilingus. As I have already mentioned, a perfect cunnilingus requires some theoretical knowledge, and of course, a lot of practice. The theory is meaningless without practical skills. Cunnilingus is not the easiest part of the sexual game. I am sure that it is easier to make a blowjob than cunnilingus. For this reason, I decided to write a good article dedicated to men who want to enhance and develop their skills in the art of cunnilingus. Usually, men make very common mistakes. Further, I will describe them. If you strive to avoid them, your cunnilingus will be really ideal.

1) BEING TOO FAST

Usually, during a prelude, men are sexually aroused. A high sexual excitement makes them hurry up. When a man is with a naked woman, he will definitely rush to insert his penis into her vagina. This situation is the biggest enemy of an ideal cunnilingus. When it comes to sexual arousal, there are some big differences between men and women. Often, it does not take much time for a man to become sexually excited. Women require more time to get hot. This is the first thing every man must understand and memorize. A man gets sexually excited as soon as he sees a naked body. The same process goes less smooth in women. Therefore, a long prelude must be the necessary part of every sexual intercourse.

As I have told you, hurrying won’t help you in sex. One of the biggest mistakes is when a man starts a prelude from licking a clitoris. This is a truly unprofessional action. A man should start caressing a woman from her lips, cheeks, ears, breast, and then, slowly go down. This is how an ideal cunnilingus is made. You must prolong your prelude in order to make your woman excited. Usually, I willingly prolong a prelude. Spend at least 10 minutes kissing her ears and lips. Lick her breast for at least 15 or 20 minutes. Thus, an ideal prelude should take at least 40 minutes. Right now, I am talking about a prelude to cunnilingus. The whole prelude might take more than an hour. During this time, you woman will be inflamed. This is how a professional lover acts. When I was 15 or 16 years old, I used to rush in sex. That time, I perfectly understood that a prelude is necessary. However, I was so sexually excited that I was not able to control myself. I used to insert my penis after a few kisses to her lips, neck, and ears. This is how an amateur sex was carried out. Today, I am very experienced, and therefore, I know that hurrying up is not the best thing you can do in bed.

Even when you are done with her lips, neck, cheeks, ears, breast, and belly, do not hurry up to start licking her clitoris. Clitoris is a part of her vagina. Of course, the clitoris is the most sensitive are on her body. But this does not mean that you should emphasize your efforts solely on her clitoris. Start from her hips. Lick and kiss her hips for several minutes. This will make her eager to feel your tongue on her vagina. Start kissing her vulvar lips. Insert your tongue, fingers inside her vagina. Do everything to please your honey. When you have already come to her clitoris, you should lick it until she cums. Do not stop doing it unless she asks you to stop. When a woman reaches a climax, further caresses of her clitoris might pain. Therefore, be utterly attentive to her reactions and feelings.

2) BEING TOO SLOW 

Of course, women are very romantic and tender creatures. We always should treat them very tenderly. Sometimes, a woman wants something more than tenderness. You have heard that some women love hard sex. This is true. Being too tender in bed might not satisfy your woman. Remember that there are loads of fans of BDSM. Analyze your woman’s hidden desires and sexual preferences. If she belongs to masochists, try to satisfy her sexual and psychological needs. A masochistic woman does not need tenderness and sweet words during sex. These women love tough sex. She will definitely love hard and rhythmical frictions. Slow motions won’t give her what she wants. Different women have different preferences in bed. Therefore, keep in mind that some women love when their clitoris is licked rhythmically. Of course, there are some fans of tenderness in sex. However, I know that most of the women love fast licking and sucking. Being too slow during licking her clitoris might not give her what she wants.

Being too slow during cunnilingus is another mistake made by men. In the beginning, your motions might be slow. There is no problem is you do it. However, further, you should speed up your tongue motions. Lick her clitoris more rhythmically. Create some pressure on her clitoris. This will let her reach the climax.

3) NOT USING YOUR FINGERS

Women love being penetrated and licked at the same time. This gives them the most of the possible pleasure. Being penetrated and licked at the same time. This is what every woman wants. Some men do all the work by the help of their lips and tongue. These men forget that they have fingers that might give their women much more pleasure.

While doing cunnilingus, insert two of your fingers inside her vagina. It will be great if you find her G-spot. If you have already found this sensitive spot inside her vagina, you should stimulate it. Lick her clitoris, and at the same time, stimulate her G-spot by your fingers. Use your free hand to embrace her breast, hips, and belly.

A professional cunnilingus is always done intuitively. It is always necessary to feel your partner. While caressing her vagina, pay attention to her movements. Thus, you will always know what your woman loves.

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Written by BAHTIYAR