success with womenSince the beginning of time, and as long as humans have existed on this planet, men have been trying to charm women. Not everyone is doing this successfully, though. Some only manage to get one partner and hold on to them for the rest of their lives, while others are playboys and seek to experience much more.

Some call it talent, and some think it's a gift from God. Good looks can indeed help, but it's far from true that this is the key to getting women. 


Men are visual beings, while women are mostly emotional. Studies have shown that men's brains react differently than women's. Research on this matter, published by South Korean scientists in 2013, showed that men and women don't follow the same patterns. 

The MRI on 20 volunteers at the average age of 24.7 (men), and 23.6 (women) showed different results when they were presented with two different types of arousing stimulation. Men were turned on by the first type, which was a physical and visual stimulation. Women preferred the second, an erotic stimulation with a storyline. You can draw a clear conclusion from this – women are not turned on by the same things men are. If anyone wants to catch their attention, they need to think about what women want. Science is the most relevant factor in explaining this matter.

Furthermore, a study from 2010, conducted at the University of Wales, also showed that women undoubtedly find men of a higher social status more attractive. The scientists used a male model and, through a picture, presented him to male and female respondents. In one photo, the model was standing next to a Silver Bentley Continental GT, which is an expensive vehicle representing a high social status. Next, the model was presented while standing next to a Red Ford Fiesta ST, which is an ordinary affordable vehicle.

Women responded that the guy next to the Bentley was more appealing. Men, however, didn't fall for the trap. To them, the model was equally attractive in both pictures.


Of course not. Even though science points at the fact that women prefer men of a higher social status, that doesn't mean being rich and buying them gifts is all it takes.

There are more than 3.6 billion women in the world. Every single one of them is different. They are all interested in different things, and they see the world from their unique perspective. That means your approach can't be "one-size-fits-all." There's no one pick-up line to win over every woman. 

Knowing that women's brains are turned on by successful men, you need to find out what you're successful at. Having money is just one of the many ways in which successful men show their status. Men can be successful philosophers, athletes, scientists, musicians, writers, and much more.


You don't get rewarded with models every time you achieve something in your virtual life. You still need to work on yourself. Some basic steps must be done. Personal hygiene, regular workout, interest, and knowledge of certain social topics are a must. 

For example, going to the gym is vital for maintaining both physical and mental health. However, not too many people do it regularly. These gym membership statistics show that 80% of dropouts from public gyms happen in the first two months. 

In other words, you need to be persistent and committed to creating the image of success. All segments are important for building this image. You need to have achievements, maintain good looks, and be confident. Work on yourself, and a change will be inevitable.

Written by Bahtiyar
Bahtiyar is a businessman, Internet marketer, blogger, traveler, and the founder of one of the world's most popular blogs Bahtiyar World.