I have been to nightclubs only a few times in my life. To be honest, I didn’t like it. Nightclubs do not suit my temperaments, character, and lifestyle. I am sure that different types of people love visiting different places. For example, an avid reader will prefer spending his free time reading. Another person who loves being in big crowds of people will definitely choose to go to a nightclub. Anyway, nightclubs are shade, dark, smoky, hazy, and usually dangerous places. In this blog, I will tell you about the reasons why I prefer not to visit nightclubs.


I am very sensitive to my personal space. So when somebody enters my personal space, it makes me somehow angry. No doubts, in a crowded nightclub, everyone will enter your personal space. Sometimes, if you are a hot man, this can make you angry. Last time, when a drunk man was eventually hitting my left hand in a bar, I wanted to punch him. Of course, I am enough patient not to fight in a nightclub. However, such constant irritative actions can cause and provoke some conflicts.


The title clearly represents the real identity of nightclubs. I am sure that the regularity of fights in nightclubs equals to 85%. When people are drunk, there is no doubt they will be very prone to conflicts. Alcohol is the main cause of crime around the globe. Usually, I see loads of drunk and angry eyes looking at me while I am in a nightclub. In this situation, I try not to pay any attention to provocative looks. The likelihood of fights in nightclubs is very high. No need to say that only specific psychological types of people are prone o visiting nightclubs. Usually, these are the ones who love showing off. This type of individual is very prone to fighting.


A nightclub is a place where people come to dance. If a person wants to have a conversation with someone, he will probably go to a cafe, a restaurant, a pub, or anywhere else. A nightclub is the worst place to communicate with someone. Clubs are extremely noisy and loud. 95% of nightclub visitors come to dance. This is true. Thus, if you hate dancing, there is near to nothing for you to do in a nightclub. I might come to a nightclub to meet some girls there. This is the only reason why I might visit such a place. But if everyone is busy dancing, I am sure that my plan will fail. It is stupid to approach a dancing girl. If she is busy dancing, you’d better not disturb her.


There are several reasons why a nightclub is definitely the worst place to meet women. Whether you want to find a potential girlfriend, a wife, or a regular sexual partner, a nightclub is not the right place to do that. Whether you need a girlfriend or a lover, you will probably want her to be kind, loyal, generous, and serious. Let me tell you that it is very unlikely that a person with such a good character will visit a nightclub. Most of the clubbers are prone to narcissism, showing off, pride, infidelity, promiscuity, and other undesired things. No need to mess with this type of woman. I have never met a girlfriend in a nightclub. I have tried that, but unfortunately or fortunately, I could not do that.


To be honest I dislike a nightclub contingent. Clubbers are not those people whom I would like to befriend. I prefer communicating with serious, loyal, caring, knowledgeable, and hardworking people. I don’t like hedonists. Even though I have a little bit hedonistic lifestyle, I am very hardworking. Anyways, I cannot be considered a hedonist.

These are some of the reasons why I don’t visit nightclubs too frequently. I am not a total hater of nightclubs. However, I am not prone to visiting these types of shady places. For me, it more pleasurable to spend a couple of hours with my girlfriend in a silent cafe. Nevertheless, I will still keep visiting nightclubs from time to time. 

Written by Bahtiyar
Bahtiyar is a businessman, Internet marketer, blogger, traveler, and the founder of one of the world's most popular blogs Bahtiyar World.